What happens between two people in a therapy room, told the way I know best — in letters. Each letter begins where a real conversation begins: with a person carrying something heavy, and the question of what to do with it.
Written for anyone curious about the inner work of change — clients past and future, students of psychology, and readers who simply like an honest voice. No jargon, no case-study coldness; just the room, opened.
On the courage of first sessions — the rehearsed speeches, the car outside the office, and why the messy start is the right one.
Resistance, grief, the sessions where nothing seems to happen — and the quiet weeks where everything does.
Good therapy has a purpose, a direction, and eventually, an ending. On carrying the room with you after the last session.
A letter is the most honest form I know: one person, writing to one person, with nothing to hide behind.
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Co-authored with an educator between 2016 and 2019, each illustrated storybook is built around one universal value — honesty, patience, generosity, courage — and written to be read aloud, discussed, and argued with.
The series is taught in schools today. Educators can request classroom sets and the companion discussion guides; the 'Teaching values through stories' program builds on the same material.
She holds a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology (BC University — Belgium Campus) and is the author of sixteen books and an educator. She practices online, in English and Turkish, working with individuals, couples, and parents of teens.
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